This past weekend we started a huge house project that involved switching bedrooms around upstairs and basically completely uprooting the top floor of our house. In the process, I did a massive purge of the childrens' rooms, my room, the attic....everything. I hauled so much stuff to the trash, and SO much stuff to charity. The most difficult thing I parted with: handmade wool cable knit pull-over sweaters that my husband and I bought 14 years ago on our honeymoon in Ireland. We wore them for maybe one year...and then realized that they were HUGE (why we bough them so big, I'll never know), and I packed them up into a nice tupperware container that housed them for the next 13 years. 13 YEARS!! Every so often I would pull them out and wonder for a split second if maybe we'd wear them again, then I'd quickly come to the conclusion that we'd look like idiots and NO, we weren't going to wear them. I kept them for purely sentimenal reasons. Well, this year I pulled them out, my husband by my side. We confirmed that we must have looked really silly wearing those XL sweaters (I'm sure I looked like a marshmellow on a stick). Then we decided that there was some homeless man, who was cold and considerably larger than either of us, who would love that sweater to death. And so we purged.
It is hard to part with things...even things you don't use and don't like. We all have a part of us that hoards for all sorts of reasons....guilt in letting it go, tribute to the past, fear of not having something in the future. The list goes on.
What I can say though, is that it felt GREAT to get rid of all the "stuff" we had accumulated. It felt great to give something to someone who really needed it, instead of letting it just take up space in my attic. I love to purge, but even for me it is a struggle sometimes to let go of things. But think about it, the moment you let space into your life, there is more space for what you really need, and really want!
Signed, ME {lv}